Which is easiest to change – Thinking, Acting, or Feeling? Acting is often chosen, but it is actually thinking. Thinking drives everything in your life. Thinking is the key! Consider this – thinking about changing your actions precedes the actual actions, right? That doesn’t mean that you believe the thinking, but you are acting on it […]
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The Magic Question Tool uses self-discovery to help people change. It focuses on simple, small actions rather than big or more complex issues. If you prefer to give advice, then this tool isn’t for you. While not always the case, the tools that promote self-discovery work best for me. Typically, when you listen and ask questions, […]
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The Common Pattern of Life Change is…“I was living this way. Then one day THIS happened. Now I live my life this way.” Before you read this, it would be helpful to read about the 3 options for change and the Common Pattern for Life Change but this will still be helpful even if you don’t. Now […]
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You have 3 options for change when you face any situation, and it is especially important is more serious situations. Your 3 options for change are very important when you are in the common pattern for life change. That pattern has three steps and it sounds like this:“I was living this way. Then one day […]
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Good thinking will help us eliminate the bad part of a common pattern everyone experiences in life. The pattern occurs over and over with the outcome of each occurrence leading either to a life that is better or one that is suffering additional consequences. The common pattern has three simple statements:I was living this way. Then one […]
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“I don’t have my own business and I don’t work in marketing or sales, so why should I be interested in the 4 levels of customer expectations?” That is a very valid question that requires asking you a question. “Does anyone, see, use, review, or notice your work product?” If you answer “No”, then you have the […]
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