2.06 – Engage Excellence with Freedom and Self-governance

Course Description

Freedom Is Superior to Control helps GR8 Leaders focus on the benefits of freedom and reduce the costs of control (domination or manipulation). Freedom is derailed by “should, ought, or must,” which is the same as obligation. Freedom reduces rebellion, therefore aiding productivity. Control doesn’t develop people; it is about the leader getting his way often at the expense of the people. When people are encouraged to use responsible freedom, more power comes into their lives. Freedom is not obligated to do anything—it wants to do things. Freedom is encouraged with simple tools like Primary and Secondary Choices.

Freedom Excels With Self-governance shows how self-governance is a crucial factor in preventing irresponsible freedom. Self-governance is a critical leadership value that knows how to pass up immediate gratification for future benefits. It involves living with a WE, not ME mindset and isn’t a slave or victim of life, circumstances, and people. The Two Circles tool helps people see how often we allow our lives to be controlled by the external, resulting in a lack of self-governance. The Freedom V tool illustrates the correlation between freedom and self-governance and shows how boundaries and consequences are used to aid self-governance.

Freedom Is Not Controlled By Emotions provides critical insight into the way emotions work. Great leaders know that emotions are a central part of each individual; therefore, they know the best sequence for three words – Acting, Thinking, and Feeling. Leaders are not asked to eliminate or stop using their emotions because a tremendous asset is ignored when unused. The key is to slow down your emotions (thinking) so that you can reflect on your fundamental values and live those instead of reacting emotionally. GR8 Leaders also know the clear impact that reality and truth have on improving lives.

Module 1 Freedom Is Superior to Control
Unit 1 060100 – Working Definition  
Unit 2 060200 – External and Internal  
Unit 3 060300 – Responsible and Irresponsible  
Unit 4 060400 – Clear Benefits  
Unit 5 060500 – Should, Ought, Must Obligation  
Unit 6 060600 – Should, Ought, Must Encourage Rebellion  
Unit 7 060700 – Should, Ought, Must Create Fiction  
Unit 8 060800 – Controlling and Controlled  
Unit 9 060900 – Motivated Primarily by Fear  
Unit 10 061000 – Try to Prevent Bad Things  
Unit 11 061100 – Hurts Relationships and Self  
Unit 12 061600 – Dictators Are Mostly Men  
Unit 13 061700 – Dictator Traits, Risks, Attributes  
Unit 14 061701 – Value and Risk  
Unit 15 061800 – Help for Dictators  
Unit 16 061200 – Ask, Is Fear Real or Imaginary?  
Unit 17 061300 – Change is Their Responsibility  
Unit 18 061400 – Slow Down, Remember Control Boomerang  
Unit 19 061900 – Change Your Words  
Unit 20 062000 – Primary and Secondary Choices  
Unit 21 062100 – Choose WE Rather Than ME  
Unit 22 061500 – RESULT: Profound Change  
Unit 23 062200 – Respects Boundaries  
Unit 24 062300 – Changes Relationships  
Unit 25 062400 – Changes You  
Module 2 Freedom Excels with Self-governance
Unit 1 062500 – Are You Asking These Questions  
Unit 2 062600 – Definition  
Unit 3 062601 – Need  
Unit 4 062800 – Key Actions That Help  
Unit 5 062900 – Predeciding  
Unit 6 063000 – Visual Image of Hyperbolic Discounting  
Unit 7 063100 – Other Actions  
Unit 8 063200 – Self-governance versus Self-esteem  
Unit 9 063300 – Two Circles Demonstration  
Unit 10 063400 – Two Circles Summary  
Unit 11 063500 – Two Attitudes (Another Perspective)  
Unit 12 063600 – Freedom V  
Unit 13 063700 – Applications  
Unit 14 063800 – Building Blocks  
Module 3 Freedom Is Not Controlled by Emotions
Unit 1 063900 – Watching A Scary Movie  
Unit 2 064000 – Feelings are BEST  
Unit 3 064100 – Feelings Are WORST  
Unit 4 064200 – Actions and Feelings  
Unit 5 064300 – Fake It Till You Make It?  
Unit 6 064400 – Help Feelings Change Using Actions  
Unit 7 064500 – Thinking/Feeling Principle  
Unit 8 064600 – Which Is The Easiest to Change?  
Unit 9 064700 – Classical Insights  
Unit 10 064800 – A Common Pattern for Changed Lives  
Unit 11 064900 – Change Has 3 Options  
Unit 12 065000 – So, What is THIS?  
Unit 13 065100 – 1-Slow Your Emotions Down  
Unit 14 065201 – Theory of System 1 and System 2 Thinking  
Unit 15 065400 – 2-Magic Question Tool  
Unit 16 065300 – 3-Pre-decide  
Unit 17 065500 – 4-ActivInsight Steps 1-4  
Unit 18 065600 – 4-ActivInsight Step 5  
Unit 19 065700 – 4-ActivInsight Steps 6-7  

Freedom Is Superior to Control helps GR8 Leaders focus on the benefits of freedom and reduce the costs of control (domination or manipulation). Freedom is derailed by “should, ought, or must,” which is the same as obligation. Freedom reduces rebellion, therefore aiding productivity. Control doesn’t develop people; it is about the leader getting his way often at the expense of the people. When people are encouraged to use responsible freedom, more power comes into their lives. Freedom is not obligated to do anything—it wants to do things. Freedom is encouraged with simple tools like Primary and Secondary Choices.

Freedom Excels With Self-governance shows how self-governance is a crucial factor in preventing irresponsible freedom. Self-governance is a critical leadership value that knows how to pass up immediate gratification for future benefits. It involves living with a WE, not ME mindset and isn’t a slave or victim of life, circumstances, and people. The Two Circles tool helps people see how often we allow our lives to be controlled by the external, resulting in a lack of self-governance. The Freedom V tool illustrates the correlation between freedom and self-governance and shows how boundaries and consequences are used to aid self-governance.

Freedom Is Not Controlled By Emotions provides critical insight into the way emotions work. Great leaders know that emotions are a central part of each individual; therefore, they know the best sequence for three words – Acting, Thinking, and Feeling. Leaders are not asked to eliminate or stop using their emotions because a tremendous asset is ignored when unused. The key is to slow down your emotions (thinking) so that you can reflect on your fundamental values and live those instead of reacting emotionally. GR8 Leaders also know the clear impact that reality and truth have on improving lives.

Module 1 Freedom Is Superior to Control
Unit 1 060100 – Working Definition  
Unit 2 060200 – External and Internal  
Unit 3 060300 – Responsible and Irresponsible  
Unit 4 060400 – Clear Benefits  
Unit 5 060500 – Should, Ought, Must Obligation  
Unit 6 060600 – Should, Ought, Must Encourage Rebellion  
Unit 7 060700 – Should, Ought, Must Create Fiction  
Unit 8 060800 – Controlling and Controlled  
Unit 9 060900 – Motivated Primarily by Fear  
Unit 10 061000 – Try to Prevent Bad Things  
Unit 11 061100 – Hurts Relationships and Self  
Unit 12 061600 – Dictators Are Mostly Men  
Unit 13 061700 – Dictator Traits, Risks, Attributes  
Unit 14 061701 – Value and Risk  
Unit 15 061800 – Help for Dictators  
Unit 16 061200 – Ask, Is Fear Real or Imaginary?  
Unit 17 061300 – Change is Their Responsibility  
Unit 18 061400 – Slow Down, Remember Control Boomerang  
Unit 19 061900 – Change Your Words  
Unit 20 062000 – Primary and Secondary Choices  
Unit 21 062100 – Choose WE Rather Than ME  
Unit 22 061500 – RESULT: Profound Change  
Unit 23 062200 – Respects Boundaries  
Unit 24 062300 – Changes Relationships  
Unit 25 062400 – Changes You  
Module 2 Freedom Excels with Self-governance
Unit 1 062500 – Are You Asking These Questions  
Unit 2 062600 – Definition  
Unit 3 062601 – Need  
Unit 4 062800 – Key Actions That Help  
Unit 5 062900 – Predeciding  
Unit 6 063000 – Visual Image of Hyperbolic Discounting  
Unit 7 063100 – Other Actions  
Unit 8 063200 – Self-governance versus Self-esteem  
Unit 9 063300 – Two Circles Demonstration  
Unit 10 063400 – Two Circles Summary  
Unit 11 063500 – Two Attitudes (Another Perspective)  
Unit 12 063600 – Freedom V  
Unit 13 063700 – Applications  
Unit 14 063800 – Building Blocks  
Module 3 Freedom Is Not Controlled by Emotions
Unit 1 063900 – Watching A Scary Movie  
Unit 2 064000 – Feelings are BEST  
Unit 3 064100 – Feelings Are WORST  
Unit 4 064200 – Actions and Feelings  
Unit 5 064300 – Fake It Till You Make It?  
Unit 6 064400 – Help Feelings Change Using Actions  
Unit 7 064500 – Thinking/Feeling Principle  
Unit 8 064600 – Which Is The Easiest to Change?  
Unit 9 064700 – Classical Insights  
Unit 10 064800 – A Common Pattern for Changed Lives  
Unit 11 064900 – Change Has 3 Options  
Unit 12 065000 – So, What is THIS?  
Unit 13 065100 – 1-Slow Your Emotions Down  
Unit 14 065201 – Theory of System 1 and System 2 Thinking  
Unit 15 065400 – 2-Magic Question Tool  
Unit 16 065300 – 3-Pre-decide  
Unit 17 065500 – 4-ActivInsight Steps 1-4  
Unit 18 065600 – 4-ActivInsight Step 5  
Unit 19 065700 – 4-ActivInsight Steps 6-7  
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