Key Lesson: Your biggest problem – you make everything about “ME.” The solution – pursue their best patiently, kindly, sacrificially, and unconditionally.

  1. What is the biggest problem for leaders and any relationship?
  2. What is the difference between being defensive and defending yourself?
  3. What is a simple way to know you are probably “making everything about ME?”
  4. Memorize James 3:16.
  5. What question will help you when you have elevated negative emotions?
  6. Quote the definition of Love proposed.
  7. How does that definition solve the ME problem?
  8. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, there are 15 elements of love. Which two can be a summary of the other 13?
  9. Memorize the quote from Archbishop Chaput. Explain the quote.
  10.  Explain how the “Finger Pointing” exercise works.
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